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Betty
Jewson 1929 - 1999
Miss Jewson
(Betty) will be
remembered with love and affection by all pupils who attended St.
Michael’s.
She was Matron almost from the inception of the School and remained so
until it’s demise in 1969.
To most of us boarders she was the
first face we saw when we first arrived at the school and to what was a
pretty un-nerving experience in our young lives and she stayed a barrier
between us and the harsher realities of school life for as long as we
remained at St.Michael's.
It is difficult to comprehend but in 1953 when I joined the illustrious
body, Betty was only 24 years old, younger than most of our own offspring
are now and she took responsibility for a
large and disparate group
of adolescent boys, some full of bravura, some shrinking violets, some
homesick, some relishing the freedom that being away from home brought,
some precocious some introspective but all treated with an even hand, with
kindness and fairness. Not
that Betty suffered fools gladly, there was no soppiness about her and we
were made to understand that life was to be lived and a few knocks along
the way were all part of growing up. She was always approachable, though
not between 6.45 and 7.00 on weekdays and for an hour on Sunday morning
when the “Everyday Story of Countryfolk” took precedent over most
other things.
It is, I think fair to say that she subjugated her own life to that of the
welfare of her charges, her surrogate, family for as long as the School
existed and stayed a staunch friend until her death.
She hadn’t the happiest of times later in life being widowed so quickly
after finding happiness and suffering greatly as she did from arthritis.
Movement was very difficult and she had to give up driving but she was
ever present at our reunions where she held court and you often had to
join a queue to have a word with her such was her demand. Her memory was
phenomenal recalling as she did names, faces and far more stories than
some of us would care to admit and which she recounted to all with relish.
She was simply The Best.
R.I.P. Betty
You went too soon
You deserve your
rest but you will be greatly missed
Martin Graville
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